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Lets talk about sex, love-making or whatsoever.
I dont usually talk about something so personal and private to anyone, not even to my girls thats right, I feel pretty tensed up and uncomfortable talking about it.
The reason is simple... Whichever fact you tell people, they will surely have opinions.
Anyway to end off, take however long the time is needed for you to find out if you really love that person and if that person really loves you. At least when you look back, you did give it to someone you loved once. Btw, its not the Chanel bag he bought shows that he loves you, its the littlest things he does every single day. Be responsible too! Shotgun wedding this Aug!
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Sunday, June 20, 2010
(blog about this in Jan but didnt post cuz it was quite personal but decided to post now since I have nth to do)
I dont usually talk about something so personal and private to anyone, not even to my girls thats right, I feel pretty tensed up and uncomfortable talking about it.
The reason is simple... Whichever fact you tell people, they will surely have opinions.
if you tell them about your intimate details, im afraid people will judge you as being someone with no morals, very suay bian that kinda thing.. on the other hand,
if you tell them that nothing happen between you and your bf, keeping it for marriage, they think that you are the most boring couple on earth, you are an old-fashioned nun and that you are so conservative, party-pooper.. you get my drift?
Anyway, I am not the ambassador for marriage before sex neither am I advocating pre-marital sex, I just feel that the kinda thing is very unique to individuals and not everyone has to take the same stand. And whichever stand that you take doesn't make you any more morally superior nor im-so-cool-and-you-are-so-obiang. Different people have different stands because they have different religions, different chemistry in the relationships and different kinds of perceptions on sex.
I feel that the whole marriage before sex thing is kinda overrated. What keep it for your husband kinda thing? How many people get to marry their true love? I swear that everyone that I've asked told me that their First gf/bf was the most memorable and special to them, i mean you might love that person you are marrying but there is a possibility that you've loved someone else more... just that things did not work out(maybe he passed) and you find someone that treats you well enough but does not necessarily mean you love him the most. Its a huge chunk to digest, but slowly think about what I say, it all makes sense.
How do people know that they will marry the person they love most or What makes you think that the person you are with now is the one you think you love the most?
No matter what decision you make, you should make one that you know you wont regret. Just be sure that you aint force into it, it should be a two-way thing.
Lets have a senario if you dont understand what im saying, lets put xiaotiantian and me as an example. We will be celebrating our 7th anni this year, so much shit has happened to us and its really with love and the grace of God that we managed to stay together for so long. Yes we are very much in love and in this case if he dies or anything, will I regret since I never lost IT to him, and I have to lose IT to someone whom I might not love as much? Yeah, I might just marry him because since I cant have my xtt, it doesnt matter who I marry anymore. Speaking of which, if you find someone who tells you that you are worth the wait, then why am i so bothered with what others have to say..
Oh right, I am so bothered because people cant stop asking me. And whatever I say, they dont believe me. Thank you for having so much interest in my sex life but since you don't believe what I say then don't ask. Just form opinions based on your own imagination.
if you tell them that nothing happen between you and your bf, keeping it for marriage, they think that you are the most boring couple on earth, you are an old-fashioned nun and that you are so conservative, party-pooper.. you get my drift?
Anyway, I am not the ambassador for marriage before sex neither am I advocating pre-marital sex, I just feel that the kinda thing is very unique to individuals and not everyone has to take the same stand. And whichever stand that you take doesn't make you any more morally superior nor im-so-cool-and-you-are-so-obiang. Different people have different stands because they have different religions, different chemistry in the relationships and different kinds of perceptions on sex.
I feel that the whole marriage before sex thing is kinda overrated. What keep it for your husband kinda thing? How many people get to marry their true love? I swear that everyone that I've asked told me that their First gf/bf was the most memorable and special to them, i mean you might love that person you are marrying but there is a possibility that you've loved someone else more... just that things did not work out(maybe he passed) and you find someone that treats you well enough but does not necessarily mean you love him the most. Its a huge chunk to digest, but slowly think about what I say, it all makes sense.
How do people know that they will marry the person they love most or What makes you think that the person you are with now is the one you think you love the most?
No matter what decision you make, you should make one that you know you wont regret. Just be sure that you aint force into it, it should be a two-way thing.
Lets have a senario if you dont understand what im saying, lets put xiaotiantian and me as an example. We will be celebrating our 7th anni this year, so much shit has happened to us and its really with love and the grace of God that we managed to stay together for so long. Yes we are very much in love and in this case if he dies or anything, will I regret since I never lost IT to him, and I have to lose IT to someone whom I might not love as much? Yeah, I might just marry him because since I cant have my xtt, it doesnt matter who I marry anymore. Speaking of which, if you find someone who tells you that you are worth the wait, then why am i so bothered with what others have to say..
Oh right, I am so bothered because people cant stop asking me. And whatever I say, they dont believe me. Thank you for having so much interest in my sex life but since you don't believe what I say then don't ask. Just form opinions based on your own imagination.
Someone once asked me directly if we are sexually active (i keep deleting and backspacing but I still cant find another word which I am less embarrassed to type on my blog)
And I said, "no"
Her reply was, "omg. then what you guys do? isnt it very boring"
I was astound by what she said, to be honest, I almost died. There is a hundred and one thing to do besides that my dear!
And no worries, I will blog when it happens. Afterall, i guess it will be memorable as we have been keeping for it. All the anticipation and suspense will make everything extra special.
Anyway to end off, take however long the time is needed for you to find out if you really love that person and if that person really loves you. At least when you look back, you did give it to someone you loved once. Btw, its not the Chanel bag he bought shows that he loves you, its the littlest things he does every single day. Be responsible too! Shotgun wedding this Aug!