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Survived hell week and the word is "Liberated".
Finally get to have some time to laze around and not feel so tired/headache everyday.'
You guys like to read about my complains right, heres a long one.
Nothing repulses me more than a petty/possessive man.
I dont understand why some people can't be genuinely happy for others.
If you know that someone else is doing better than you or you are jealous of smth, instead of feeling jealous, you should probably be happy for people. Nothing is more attractive than to see a Man with a big heart and accept that others are better than him. Hate it when people tell me stuff like, "so? xxx only what, whats the big deal?". Come on la, Just be happy for people. Dont behave like a loserish loser who is obviously jealous. No one is comparing you two, you feel threatened because you have such a narrow mind. When people share some happy news with you, you think that they are trying to make you feel bad. Tsk!
Next moving on to possessive bfs. Kill me. I was just complaining to marc about this person and I am thankful that he isnt like that, the next thing I know, im not allowed to club. Granted for the fact that I was careless and didnt know how to take care of myself and is susceptible to lechers, still, no one tells me that i cant do this/that.
I was complaining to sissy about possessive bfs and she told me that she has a friend who has to wear knee length skirt and non-sleeveless tops. Bf deleted her facebook account and she isnt allowed to go out/talk to guys. PSYCHO.
Another case. Bf tells her not to go out with her friends. Or when shes out with friends, he calls/smses NON STOP asking her to go home or else he will not sleep. Srsly, sending emotional threats when you are like almost frigging 30? Mid life crisis huh? Please la, you dont have a social life doesnt mean everyone dont have one.
Tells gf not to perform(work/school) so that he can seem to be smarter/capable than her. PSYCHO.
Stalking all her friends' facebook/social channels/conversations. PSYCHO
Getting pissed off over nitty gritty stuff. For instance, the order of your speed dial, the order you take picture with first.. PSYCHO
What kind of a Man behaves like sucha a gu-niang? Controlling your gf is so not cool, behaving like sucha a possessive menopausal bitch irritates the hell outta me. If I am rude, then what are you? Frigging psycho. Before you judge me for my freedom of speech on my own channel, maybe you would like to be a little less sensitive, a little less psychotic, a little less possessive, a little less annoying cuz everyone hates you. Even your own friends know that you are overbearing and totally psychotic, I didnt say that, your friends said so.
Srsly, my advice to you is to watch YES MAN by Jim Carrey and make some friends so that you can have a social life so that you won't feel so bored and start to do stupid things.
And, if you ask your gf to choose between a 10yr friendship with us and you, its just so selfish of you. If you really love a person, you will not do things to make her upset or make her get stuck in a difficult position. What you have towards her its not love. You only love yourself, because you feel empty without her thats why u want her to be with you all the time, to fill up the emptiness in your life. This is selfish, because u love yourself too much that u dont want to get hurt when shes not around.
Think about what I said, if its really true love, you just want someone to be happy, irregardless of whether the person is with you or not.True love exists when you love and sacrifice willingly without expecting any returns. But now, its not love, you said you love her but you expect so many things in return(her company, her total devotion, her time). Its like you expect her to give u smthg in return for the love you put in. An analogy would be Its just like doing charity, u give money without expecting any returns willingly but now, u are more of making an investment, hoping that you will derive smthg good outta it. So tell me, do you love her or you love yourself more?
Like I said, I do not hold true love, I am in a rela and I do expect marc to spend time with me and all. But im working on it, Im glad that Im not as selfish because whenever marc wants to do smthg other than to spend time with me, I will tell him to go for it because I know he will be happy fishing in msia with his friends etc. And I will be happy as long as he had fun even though I may be bored to death at home when hes out. So, will u please change and we will all give you a chance =)
FYI, change doesnt mean like that..
(In the past)
"You cant go out with your friends"
Then now you supposedly change for the better,
"You can go out with your friends of course=)"
(the catch is that I will be angry if u go out and I will spam you with phonecalls and smses asking u to go home or else i wont sleep)
Honey Im sorry to tell you that thats not my definition of change sweetheart, u need to know that change means you need to be less of an A hole and sometimes by changing the way u handle things doesnt make you much of a less A hole. Geddit? You need to try harder!
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Saturday, August 07, 2010
Survived hell week and the word is "Liberated".
Finally get to have some time to laze around and not feel so tired/headache everyday.'
You guys like to read about my complains right, heres a long one.
Nothing repulses me more than a petty/possessive man.
I dont understand why some people can't be genuinely happy for others.
If you know that someone else is doing better than you or you are jealous of smth, instead of feeling jealous, you should probably be happy for people. Nothing is more attractive than to see a Man with a big heart and accept that others are better than him. Hate it when people tell me stuff like, "so? xxx only what, whats the big deal?". Come on la, Just be happy for people. Dont behave like a loserish loser who is obviously jealous. No one is comparing you two, you feel threatened because you have such a narrow mind. When people share some happy news with you, you think that they are trying to make you feel bad. Tsk!
Next moving on to possessive bfs. Kill me. I was just complaining to marc about this person and I am thankful that he isnt like that, the next thing I know, im not allowed to club. Granted for the fact that I was careless and didnt know how to take care of myself and is susceptible to lechers, still, no one tells me that i cant do this/that.
I was complaining to sissy about possessive bfs and she told me that she has a friend who has to wear knee length skirt and non-sleeveless tops. Bf deleted her facebook account and she isnt allowed to go out/talk to guys. PSYCHO.
Another case. Bf tells her not to go out with her friends. Or when shes out with friends, he calls/smses NON STOP asking her to go home or else he will not sleep. Srsly, sending emotional threats when you are like almost frigging 30? Mid life crisis huh? Please la, you dont have a social life doesnt mean everyone dont have one.
Tells gf not to perform(work/school) so that he can seem to be smarter/capable than her. PSYCHO.
Stalking all her friends' facebook/social channels/conversations. PSYCHO
Getting pissed off over nitty gritty stuff. For instance, the order of your speed dial, the order you take picture with first.. PSYCHO
What kind of a Man behaves like sucha a gu-niang? Controlling your gf is so not cool, behaving like sucha a possessive menopausal bitch irritates the hell outta me. If I am rude, then what are you? Frigging psycho. Before you judge me for my freedom of speech on my own channel, maybe you would like to be a little less sensitive, a little less psychotic, a little less possessive, a little less annoying cuz everyone hates you. Even your own friends know that you are overbearing and totally psychotic, I didnt say that, your friends said so.
Srsly, my advice to you is to watch YES MAN by Jim Carrey and make some friends so that you can have a social life so that you won't feel so bored and start to do stupid things.
And, if you ask your gf to choose between a 10yr friendship with us and you, its just so selfish of you. If you really love a person, you will not do things to make her upset or make her get stuck in a difficult position. What you have towards her its not love. You only love yourself, because you feel empty without her thats why u want her to be with you all the time, to fill up the emptiness in your life. This is selfish, because u love yourself too much that u dont want to get hurt when shes not around.
Think about what I said, if its really true love, you just want someone to be happy, irregardless of whether the person is with you or not.True love exists when you love and sacrifice willingly without expecting any returns. But now, its not love, you said you love her but you expect so many things in return(her company, her total devotion, her time). Its like you expect her to give u smthg in return for the love you put in. An analogy would be Its just like doing charity, u give money without expecting any returns willingly but now, u are more of making an investment, hoping that you will derive smthg good outta it. So tell me, do you love her or you love yourself more?
Like I said, I do not hold true love, I am in a rela and I do expect marc to spend time with me and all. But im working on it, Im glad that Im not as selfish because whenever marc wants to do smthg other than to spend time with me, I will tell him to go for it because I know he will be happy fishing in msia with his friends etc. And I will be happy as long as he had fun even though I may be bored to death at home when hes out. So, will u please change and we will all give you a chance =)
FYI, change doesnt mean like that..
(In the past)
"You cant go out with your friends"
Then now you supposedly change for the better,
"You can go out with your friends of course=)"
(the catch is that I will be angry if u go out and I will spam you with phonecalls and smses asking u to go home or else i wont sleep)
Honey Im sorry to tell you that thats not my definition of change sweetheart, u need to know that change means you need to be less of an A hole and sometimes by changing the way u handle things doesnt make you much of a less A hole. Geddit? You need to try harder!